So if your standing the whole time i would call that an fbsm... Fbsm tends to be or should be a long drawn out art of seduction. Never an option in 30 mins. the first hhr is edging then on to the slow slow slides and rubs,
Super late to the party sorry!!!! For fbsm I use fractionated coconut oil. Its scent free, non staining and antimicrobial. Can be used as lube with non latex condoms.