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I often enjoy a longer session to remove the stress of watching the time. My solution with a regular is to tip generously to show appreciation and gratitude for additional time and service. This 'understanding' allows us both to enjoy each other even more and leads to more flexibility in following visits.

I don't have a favorite alcoholic beverage. But do love a good horchata.

For her - Ben Wa balls. Combine with some G-spot massage and a bit of clitoral stroking and its off to the races. She also adores the Hitachi Wand. Now cordless! And the attachments.

Another perspective - A beautiful, semi-professional photo can lead us to think 'photoshopped' and then to conclude highly edited and misleading. This is not often the case, but commercial advertising and marketing have battered us into feeling untrusting. Note that there is a place on reviews to indicate whether the pictures are accurate. Overall, pictures can't fill in all the details. I like to see a friendly smile, the tempting eyes, experience the warm personality, and for me, a witty sense of humor. These traits and others are difficult to convey and, of course, YMMV.

That's a great note of encouragement. I'm entering my 60's also and note that stamina and spontaneity are lagging more and more. Tried the pills but found that I got nasty sinus headaches. However, nothing beats a warm kiss, a lingering kiss and the gentle hands of caring provider. My fav back in the midwest spends the extra time I need to enjoy the experience. And I find myself repaying the favor with extra caresses for her. One tip. Check out the book "Slow Sex" by Nicole Daedone. It is devoted to giving your gal that extra long orgasm (Orgasmic Meditation). Unbelievably fantastic! Back in the appendix is a section on arousing the fellows. Works like a charm on me.

I've booked AirBNB rooms on week long trips. It beats a hotel any day. It's much easier to relax and you can use some of the facilities such as the kitchen. You usually get the chance to chat with the host who typically lives at the place. It is also cheaper than a hotel. Its a lot like visiting relatives - you can get more comfortable, but you only want to share what you want them to know. I have thought about inviting a 'friend' over, but decided against it. After all, you are usually a guest in someone's home and if, on the other hand, you were the host you would want to know about anyone else being invited in. Plus it would be difficult to concentrate on 'activities' if I thought that our noises could be heard in adjacent rooms. I would look into leasing the complete apartment/house if privacy is valued.

I've been told that I'm a wimp. She told me about her first bikini wax experience. They applied the strips and the wax and let it set. Her friends didn't prepare her for the pain. They yanked off the first strip. She pissed all over and screamed. I guess it was a couple hours before she had enough courage to remove the other strip. She asked me if I'd like a Brazilian on my sack. No thanks! And I truly appreciate what the ladies endure to make us gents happy!

I agree, Nair burns the nut sack. I have a rechargeable cordless razor that works well if I don't get too close. One nick though and the sack shrivels. You find yourself with a wrinkled up hedge ball (do you have them out here?) that you can't get a close cut. Always prepare a couple of days ahead of time. And find a helper.

Hmmm. I had been focusing on -0.6180339887, but that's just negative thinking. Now I see the root of my problem and the irrationality of my ways. Thanks for enlightenment. I'm a convert.