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Everything posted by irisheyes

  1. When is old too old?

    Since my 20's I've been called an "old soul" just because I seem to relate more to older men and women......I just feel like they have more to talk about, share, and of course wisdom, being somewhere in the middle now, it's still the same, but, I've also met younger "old souls" to. I don't get caught up in age factors.
  2. This review had me in tears....

    I agree Kari.......not only do I think it's BS, but it also reads likes it was written by a kid.
  3. rough weekend vent

    I don't mind stating when I feel I am wrong......hard to find nowadays but you're all wasn't a NCNS so I wouldn't post a review on it. Last minute cancellation (which still sucks) or least you got a call.
  4. rough weekend vent

    That sucks man, sorry to hear that........but be sure to leave a review on both of them so others might know what to expect (established or not)........and don't sweat it, their loss, have yourself fun elsewhere and let someone else make that money.
  5. 411 Latina

    Well I am glad somebody asked about her. She's definitely been on my radar but haven't seen any reviews.
  6. 411 on Cherry Deluxe

    To each their own but at $200 an hour........I might as well go to any bar/club. Yep, I said it.
  7. I'm somewhere in the middle and pretty well balanced between them both.
  8. Last minute cancel by ASP

    Honestly............simply never cared as I always just saw it as money out of their pocket that will be going into someone else's. I learned fast and I don't get caught up on one particular individual. So whenever I am ready to see someone............I have, eh, 6-10 prospects already laid out, researched, and in order of preference. Then it's just a matter of going down the line and getting an appointment. Either way, still never cared about cancellations because I and somebody else will still get what they are looking for.
  9. Mother Nature is a *C* blocker...

    Take 30 seconds to call, e mail, text, smoke signals, whatever...just let the clients know. At least then we know something came up. Goes both ways
  10. Dynamic Pricing

    Couldn't agree with you more Crazy Horse, and Harry, we just find it interesting which isn't something "bad" to look at. I personally do move on if I have an issue with someone's asking price and leave it at that, but from those that have the experience of this venture 20yrs ago to where it's at now, and even when talking about rates.........I'd just love to hear what they would have to say, think, or feel.
  11. So how often does it happen...

    All the more reason for me not to see them. I'm an all in take it or leave it kind of guy with no time to beat around the bush (no pun intended)
  12. Dynamic Pricing

    I's agrees. Thought about putting together a little timeline showing 20yrs to now.
  13. Basically what crazy horse said...........there are people just as bad outside the hobby, in their own homes with wife and kids, with wife, or alone, walking the streets, entering the bars, jogging in the parks, attending all kinds of activities, and overall mingling with society. It is easy to have a marketed generalized perception towards what these people look like, but that is silly, as there is no once face fits all, and the one's you do not see coming are always the worst. This is life, whether in the hobby or not, but as in life, it is always a small minority of extremes compared to the overwhelming majority of non-extremes, and just the same as in life or the hobby, just use it as a learning curve.
  14. 1st thought on this ad

    It uh looka like'a man
  15. You gotta be kidding me
  16. On the roof of her parents business. It was fairly large, but we were also having drinks, getting loud, and some of the employees were walking around in the yard outside of the building looking up.
  17. Should I lose my virginity to a provider?

    Just go for it and try not to over think it on this that and everything else. You're in your 20's, you're full of tension, just get it done, move on, get your brain/body relaxed, and worry about other things moving forward. No matter if your 20-99, I see no difference. My generalization, but different ages, same situations, maybe not virginity, but issues with getting release outlets when you want, with who you want, or how you want it. As for the memories of your virginity/first time........that's up to you and others if that's what you choose to remember. As for me, my first time was NOT with a provider, but, for the life of me.........I just don't remember who exactly it was. I've had great experiences in my personal life/provider life, and some not so good, but I don't think on it or dwell on it. To me, there's just tomorrow, someone new, and new adventures. If you find your one along the journey, all the better, if not, keep having fun, if you found the one but still have your own desires she does not share, that's your business, and if you find the one who likes the fun (providers or not) with you, kudos.
  18. Advertisement preference - minimalist or wordy

    Minimalist, just need pictures, brief intro (2-3 sentences), idea of the rates, and then just has to have reviews on TOB.
  19. "Yesterday is now a vision, tomorrow but a dream, and today's a real bitch" "A soldier is better slain in battle, than alive and safe in flight"
  20. Love the Irish toast cat.........just went on my list
  21. You're right Harpo, but the quote is about a win win. Every person/party/what have you in reality initially wants to get the better end of the deal (this is the constant fight) so, every person/party/what have you has a list of their must haves to meet their overall happiness (doesn't matter what it is i.e. money, service......) but, in reality where one person/party/what have you may benefit with their list of must haves, the other party may not, so.........negotiation. Slowly, or quickly (preferred) those must haves on the list begin to get taken off, and, somewhere you meet in the middle. The good deal is a still a win win in the end (as it should be, needs to be), but, no one person/party/or what have you is where they wanted to be before the negotiation process took place. Thus, "The definition of a good deal is when two people walk away un-happy"
  22. A few of my fave quotes: "The definition of a good deal is when two people walk away un-happy" "A lion does not concern himself with the opinions of the sheep" (Game of Thrones) "If you lie down with dogs, you get up with fleas"
  23. I'm pretty cynical, but I believe all people are liars and cheats and if not I'm pretty sure I can make them be depending on what I pose as a personal question or offer to a personal circumstance. I'm always open to other people sharing their opinions to me regarding this, but since I've already tested mine more than enough times on this journey called life, all while realizing I'm not 100% correct, I'm pretty damn close each and every time not be swayed different. I just chalk it up to life and human nature depending on what is asked or what the circumstance is. Ultimately though, I can accept someone who lies and cheats, I know I have and I won't sugarcoat it, but I don't care who they lie to or cheat on, if it directly affects me..........then we have a problem. It all goes into cost/benefit and pick and choose. To be honest, I feel a lot more comfortable around others who I know have lied and cheated, or are open about it to me. At least I know in maintaining a friendship just to keep a careful eye. People who I don't know whether they lie or cheat, or have a clean slate, those are the one's I have to keep more of a watchful eye on, it's exhaustive, and it always keeps me guessing. The one's you never saw coming are the worst. Doesn't matter to me whether it's in politics, business, or personal.
  24. Where to advertise?

    I don't mind backpage. Backpage+TOB reviews = me feeling safe in meeting . If you don't have reviews, more than likely I won't call, but that's not bad, you are just going to have to earn the reviews like some of the more established providers have done. Then I will look at who posted the reviews and if they were either good or bad. I love the guys who "take one for the team", but I suppose you need to earn their trust, respect, and give them a good enough experience just the same to garner more clients by their posting of reviews. So to me, I don't care where you post, it comes down to reviews followed by other personal factors that I will then begin to weigh in a cost/benefit.
  25. So, if I only cared about getting 2 of those............say fucking and titty playing.............I should expect to pay $50? Shit, I'm in, hell, throw in the titty fucking for an extra 25 bucks. $75 with fucking, titty playing, and titty fucking is all I really need. Provide me with sucking for an added $25 coming in at 100 on top of all of that...........I'm all smiles