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  2. What’s all of your bigggest struggles in the industry

    Lately my biggest struggle is getting myself reestablished on websites that one I got hacked, another one I factory reset my iPad (my computer means) and with doing so it tossed me off of that website. Another one I will tackle tomorrow and no telling what I did? Life goes on! In all honesty, I am grateful for all my wonderful clients that keep me going in life! They keep me smiling! 😍😍
  3. thank you for a warm welcome
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  5. What’s all of your bigggest struggles in the industry

    Useing a burner phone is a good start, IF everything about it is paid in cash. You are right about nothing really being safe, but that is no reason, In my opinion, to make your self "glow in the dark" either. My comments are for what some require for screening and I am concerned that many providers do not delete our information when they are finished. I am also simply stating that any electronic business transaction has the ability to "live forever" IF L.E. is determined to chase it down. It is bad enough that these observations are true in everyday life, but for many it is too much of a risk to do deposites or payments with any electronic process. Not fearing anything here, just not willing to step into a spinning propeller. The ladies here face so many perils I am surprised that there are as many of you as there are, but IF you are a male, with an averge backgrond, getting found out here will be a disaster. Everyone has to weigh the risk vs reward in this hobby and make his/her own decisisons. I am simply stating my take on the increased risks of using electronics to play in this playground. Good luck and stay safe
  6. First Visit to Charlotte

    I’m visiting Charlotte for the first time in a couple weeks, and I don’t know the landscape or the General vibe and it’s making it feel really hard to decide which hotels to stay at. I only stay at a hotel for two nights, usually Max so I’m looking at two different hotels to stay at. I want to avoid the quiet ones and I want to avoid the ones that require a key card which some of the busier ones sometimes have does anyone have any recommendations for that perfect hotel so I can relax and not feel on guard? Thanks! XO Lola Ryan
  7. is this reviewable??

    Definitely need a review. I've had a few encounters like that recently.
  8. is this reviewable??

    Can I review this encounter?
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  10. What’s all of your bigggest struggles in the industry

    Mitzi’s, Are you saying that you don’t hang out freshly shaved, pretty and in your lingerie all day? Ha! I don’t either. It sounds fun though!
  11. @Dainty Darling i’m sorry you’re were having a rough day! You’re such a beautiful young woman. I’m sorry somebody was being really rude to you. You don’t deserve it. . Hey community of TOB obviously the guy was really getting her down. I get it! We all need an opportunity to vent! It’s human!
  12. What’s all of your bigggest struggles in the industry

    Just curious, how else can you communicate if not by phone or email or text or whatever? I don’t think anything safe.. but I’m not worried anymore. Maybe I should be? Guess, I’m just over it and toss tossing caution to the wind. Here I am come get me.🫣🫣 then again I’m not in the real world. The only elder in my life is my mom She’s almost 89.. I have great respect for her, but I’m not gonna hide who I am because I need to make it in Jeffco CO and it’s super expensive. My mortgage went up $500 extra a month because of my property values have increased. I guess.. I can’t afford to be so nervous about something that has never hurt me in the past thank goodness. I don’t have a real world job anymore I know many of the ladies as well as the majority of the men do work real jobs where they have to hide their hobby life and I get that. I am sorry. 😞
  13. Zen out with me

    This one was seriously intense for me
  14. Reviews

    i wouldn't even bother asking any of the guys on tob for a review. there are other platforms where honest feedback is actually valued and appreciated and the guys don't mind sharing their experience. but if you really wanna grow your business, you're better off focusing on getting properly indexed in search engines. the seo is way more beneficial with a much bigger impact than a tob review. but gl either way
  15. Reviews

    Consider offering a discount on a follow up meeting if a review is provided. Personally I only leave reviews when services are so great I need to give public praise. I've had providers not like what I had to say in some reviews, so I stopped giving reviews to average providers.
  16. TOB 2.0 — Trust & Verification

    this looks amazing. Apologies if I'm just out of the loop, but when can we expect 2.0 to be live??
  17. puh-leeze. .......................
  18. Hello new to tOB

    How can you be in all those places at one time? Change your location to the city you want to post in. Then post the ad. It's simple. No step by step needed
  19. I want post my ad on nyc and Portland and nj area what I should do please teach me step by steps I will learn how to used this forum as well love this forum very clean and nice designer feeling very fresh
  20. op, was this meant to be an attention threAD, or more of a psa to clients about how good of a person you are? i’m asking because it seems like your main complaint was about guys wasting your time but you still chose to engage and go back and forth with those same “timewasters.” then you came here to vent to the board members, and after those of us who commented and took the time to read your vent and respond and give you thoughtful feedback, you didnt bother to acknowledge any of the feedback we gave. it just makes me wonder what the purpose of the threAD really was, especially since you’ve been online multiple times. last time being just less than an hour ago, yet chose to stay silent here with us while saying you don’t want your time wasted.
  21. Anything New going on in April?

    good for you i hate flying as well but im to impatient to drive. safe travels dear.
  22. Reviews

    Make sure they have no reason not to . If you tried asking for one, try offering an incentive in exchange for their next encounter. Most importantly, keep in mind many if not most won't review for a number of reasons. It's not personal.
  23. Anything New going on in April?

    Thanks for the chuckle.
  24. Welcome and hope you have some fun in our community. Enjoy !!
  25. Leaving on a jet plan …

    Best of luck in Seattle - what's next for you?
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